finally found new things to blog about

so here goes. inevitably, my conversations with frens always leads to "hey... x is not a bad guy wat, summore u both so close, why not consider him?" why? is it so weird that i'm single?

i know they mean well, but this kinda things... when it comes it comes, some even better tell me "eh... u not young liao leh, u tink u stil young gal meh... wil have guys come after u, sometimes must go out n widen ur social circle, get to know more guys... better ur chances..." FYI, this fren married when he was 27 i think... he's two yrs older than me onli.

feel like laughing at their insensitivity - i do know they r concerned, but what do they want me to do... join SDU? put my name at online dating webbies? wat? and i'm not in a hurry to get hitched... better to b single than to get attached then realise it's the wrong guy... then i wil ask them "what's wrong with being single?" they wud reply "aiya... why u so sensitive? i jus ask u to go get to noe more frens ma?" correct, get to know more frens then wat? fall in love, then out of it again?... no i'll pass... n wait til at least my phobia passes, i'll know a nice guy when i see one... once they r sifted out from the 90% jian nan rens...